Knowing When to Block
Almost three-fourths of dating app users (72%) have blocked another user. Nearly half of those users went further to take punitive action by directly reporting a user on the platform, citing explicit or inappropriate behavior.
When do you take the plunge and go for the block? While the B-word might be scary to some, it’s a very welcome tool to others. Knowing when to block looks different for everyone.
“One person’s flirtation can easily become another person’s offense. Context matters.”
Let’s break down the reasons why someone might choose to block.
Online dating red flags that can put you on the road to blocking include:
No profile pictures
They bash their ex
They have a sense of urgency
They post provocative photos
They’re extremely closed off
There are inconsistencies in their stories
Another big red flag is pushing boundaries. If a user continues to message you without you replying, that’s cause for concern. It could signify social issues or potential mental health problems that may need professional attention.
Their incessant messaging may be a cry for help and your response isn’t going to solve that for them.
Other red flags are when a person attempts to get your personal information, gets angry and/or verbally abusive toward you for small things like a late reply or denial of their advances, catfishes you, or when a user repeatedly requests inappropriate things from you against your wishes.
Remember, you don’t owe anything to anyone on the apps.
You’re being kind by even conversing with them in the first place. You’re being kind to yourself when you walk away.
Give yourself compassion. Dating on the apps isn’t easy, and navigating multiple personalities can be a litmus test for love and your boundaries.